They are acting like they are inappropriately stimulating the older lady I like and making it so I can't feel about things, like I'm desensitized.  They are tacky and evil and it's stupid, doing it like a ceremony, like I'm bad and in trouble.  They think they are all professional.  They shouldn't actually be involved.  They feel important here.  They are surrounding the older lady I like like she is "special" in that way.  They have nothing to offer.